Teachings of Lupus

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Always be you- do what makes you happy, dance like there's no tomorrow, sing like you own the concert

 Be your own warrior- train yourself to fight and let go of fear, train yourself to be aware of your thoughts, feelings,emotions and notice your actions

 Needing nothing attracts everything- uncluttering our homes is the first step to creating space in our lives

 Be grateful of the smaller things rather than material things

 Be still. Meditation is great for the brain

 Move on if it's no longer adding value to your life

 Get lost in yourself

 Laughter is the best medicine

 Be your own warrior

 Impossible means I am possible. 

 Falling is a part of life

 Always be prepare for the worst

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